The Good and Ugly of Threesomes
Your situation is important. If your with a boyfriend, are either of you the jealous type? Can your man handle someone else doing the nookie with you or can you handle your man doing the nookie with another hot babe?
Ok now the thing about threesomes is choice – you can either allow two hot men to ravish you with the kind of sexual attention you’ve only ever dreamed about or satisfy those bi-curious fantasies and ask another sexy hot chick to join you and your boyfriend. But then there’s the little problems…how do you get to start or arrange a threesome in the first place? As said earlier some just happen but a lot are planned and we ain’t talking swingers clubs here, lets leave that to the older professionals. What we are talking about is a game of strip poker with some friends or game of twister with a few bits of alcohol floating around. This is usually the way with young adults which may eventually lead to something. Though this doesn’t mean it will lead to something good. And please remember safe sex is a must!!!
My situation was very uncomfortable as everyone in question was kinda of waiting to see who was going to make the first move and when it did kick off there was no passion just embarrassment with the words ringing in my head ‘ Get me outta here!!’ I ended up saying I wasn’t comfortable and left the room, even though I was aroused by the thought of doing it prior to the act.
The other problem is if your gonna do a threesome with your man and another hot girl she might start stealing your thunder. Because that’s the thing about a three-way right? the third party would have to be hot otherwise what’s the point? What happens when the unavoidable self doubt that comes when faced with a pair of boobs perkier than your own, a butt that looks rounder, bigger and fitter than yours ( I would be thinking bitch get off my man lol ) It’s one thing for your self-confidence to be hit at the gym or in a shop’s badly light changing room but during sex you should be full of confidence and passion not worry and jealousy. Not only are you naked and you have to show off your skills to prove you are better than the girl you have to watch as they display theirs in return …ouch!!!\
And, for the ladies among us who often find themselves fantasising over their hot girlfriends, the chance to have your crazy fantasies played out while also enjoying all that your man has to offer, will prove an enormous turn on. These thoughts are healthy as they add a bit of excitement to your love life but actually trying to full-fill your fantasies is another thing.
Then comes to the situation where you have two men. Remember men have egos and your boyfriend wont want to hear you ask him for a threesome so don’t ask!!!! If it happens it will happen usually because “he” instigated it.
With two guys that sounds like a girls ultimate ‘omg I just did it’ moment, i mean having two gorgeous men give you all the love and attention must make you feel like a greek goddess, right? Lets be real. Guys usually are not the slow seductive gentle type at the best of times. You see when guys get over excited they go in harrrd (excuse the pun lol) And they can forget that not all girls like this. Now when you have two guys slamming you like a jack hammer and your not in control it can be a little bit wham bam thank you ma’am rather than sexy fantasy. Also you have to make sure your boyfriend is fully comfortable with himself. He will most likely have been the one to ask for the threesome but will be the one questioning you later about who was better and honey it could be a long night trying to convince him he was the better half!
On the other hand, there is doing it with two guys where neither of them you are dating which is even more to worry about as your boyfriend can usually keep another excited third party under control. It reminds me of a certain time I heard about a situation from a certain girl group member from back in the day (wont say her name) who had a threesome with 2 guys (she wasn’t dating either of them) and they tore into her…ouch!!!!!! she ended up going to hospital, she was ok but went for a check up as she felt a bit of pain in the.. ahem… rear area. So don’t just fly into any situation. Usually, based on my knowledge threesome usually start off with two rampant females that may have had a little too much to drink with a lucky third party male friend who happens to be around or is dating one of the girls.
But if your gonna explore into the world of threesome you still have to be careful. This doesn’t mean playing fast and loose with your health, you should be safe no matter the number of partners, but experience with your partner will provide you with memories to warm your cockles come those future quiet weekends alone, especially when there’s no boyfriends around and you reach for the toys (lol that’s another blog for another day)
As I said before, it dreams as a beautiful thing but how do you go about starting a threesome? Are there rules on who can touch what & where, or who goes first? Will everyone involved like the same things and if not are you willing to compromise or change what you like? Just thinking about it makes me want to run out the room lol. It’s interesting that a third person on a date becomes a crowd and is considered uncomfortable but three-way sex is somehow thought as the final conquest in a two way relationship. Oh well, I suppose that’s probably why the best threesomes happen by chance rather then planned.
Again what ever situation you find yourself in especially if it involves alcohol, make sure you still keep safe sex & safe environment at the forefront, or embarrassment will be the last thing you’ll be worrying about in the morning!